tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-142856939623433322024-03-05T18:48:54.159-08:00House Full of JollyKris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-10545578499194998692014-01-29T10:00:00.000-08:002014-02-01T13:08:07.560-08:00Warmth regardless of SnowIt's one of those rare mornings ... The schools are closed, so I'm off work. We had ~ 5" of snow yesterday so of course our town is barely functioning. The dealership is opening late so Kris didn't have to rush out the door too quickly. Piper is asleep in her swing and Palmer is watching cartoons.<br />
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It's been an emotional morning for me. I read an article of 2 young parents leaving their 5 month old in his car seat for 8 days until he died. I couldn't help but cry as I sat on the couch and watched baby girl in her swing and Palmer running around the living room. What kind of human are you to watch your child waste away, knowing you have the power to keep him/her alive? It broke my heart for that baby ... he died clenching his car seat strap and with his eyes open. He was waiting for someone, anyone, to save him. I'm sure my Savior welcomed him home with arms with open. I pray for the "parents", if you can call them that.<br />
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I'm sure today will be a trying day ... keeping a 3 month and 3 year old entertained while stuck inside. I'm so thankful that we have a roof over our heads and heat. The little things really do matter. We have each other! My kids are healthy and happy. What more could a mom ask for?Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-44311172793847050252013-12-27T12:52:00.001-08:002013-12-27T12:52:49.244-08:00Piper - Just Beautiful!While I was out on maternity leave, I visited a photog friend of mine. She was looking for a newborn "model" and I happened to have a newborn. It was a quick session as I had to go out of town that morning ... but Julie was so sweet and welcomed us right in. Julie is expecting her 4th baby but rocked out our session. Piper of course, was wide awake most of the time. I appreciate Julie (of <a href="http://www.gaylerphotography.com/">Julie Gayler photography </a>)taking the time to capture my sweet baby girl. I can't wait to have some family photos done ... sadly enough, we have 1 from Christmas day!
Check our my sweet Piper baby!
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I can't believe she was 10 weeks old yesterday! Time is flying by!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-37126234062175226812013-12-12T08:58:00.001-08:002013-12-12T13:56:01.721-08:00Quit blogging much? Why ... There's so much to share.I really don't know what happened to my blog. We had a beautiful baby and BAM! It happened ... I didn't make time to sit down and capture all the little things going on. Well, I'm going to do my best to recap the last 2 and a half years. Last November we moved to Greenville. It's been nice being "home" and close to my family. My parents have been a blessing to us.<br />
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Our most recent joyful news is the birth of our daughter, Piper Autumn Jolly. She made us a family of four on October 17th @ 12:35 am. She's absolutely beautiful and is as happy as Palmer was when he was little. She was born with a head full of dark brown hair, slate blue eyes and a complexion to die for. From her birth to now (and I'm sure it'll continue) she is my 0-60 child. She goes from laughing to ticked off in an instant. This would be how I went from some twinges/pains at 6:30pm and her being born at 12:35am. I'll write my birth story in another post.<br />
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Palmer just turned 3 last Friday! I can NOT believe he's already 3 years old. We go for his 3 year old visit next week. He's getting ready to move up to the 3 year old class in the next week or so. He's smart, loving and absolutely adorable. He randomly (and constantly) goes up to his sister and gives her "loves and kisses." It's so sweet how he'll kiss whatever part of her body is accessible and then lean his head down to her and love on her. He's the tallest kid in his class. (and probably has the biggest feet too!) We're transitioning him into 5T clothes. YES! You read that right, 5T! He's solid! He's wearing an 11.5 shoe as well. So solid and has a good understanding. He gets his feet from me.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-41774648908349191712011-04-16T20:33:00.001-07:002011-04-17T06:24:24.651-07:00Happer Easter! Happy Spring!Of course I'm late doing Palmer's 4 month post. Life is busy as usual but things are great! We are settling into a schedule of work, baby and life. (Although Kris might tell you that we need a date night soon!)<br /><br />I photographed some of Palmer's Easter pictures the other day. Without any help I might add. They turned out pretty good and I hope to photograph some more today. I had hoped to do some yesterday but the weather here was seriously bad. <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY_uww1WY6QIV_QlfoY9K72G3M14mqEa-pwFy5VFbbTu0hGIJO9AUscwUv-IwdnUi-H-aAQRaRFDZOMv6yPyy-Q-NauTop5lERIUSSy2UIXjUSmORM91HN90f0Zage1BQKPM1zEpX5AQ/s1600/_MG_1392.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY_uww1WY6QIV_QlfoY9K72G3M14mqEa-pwFy5VFbbTu0hGIJO9AUscwUv-IwdnUi-H-aAQRaRFDZOMv6yPyy-Q-NauTop5lERIUSSy2UIXjUSmORM91HN90f0Zage1BQKPM1zEpX5AQ/s320/_MG_1392.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596390831672002354" /></a><br /><br />We had major storms and tornadoes in the area. Lives were lost, including 3 young children in Raleigh. We are incredibly blessed to be alive and those we love and not to have sustained any damages.<br /><br />On to My Boy! He was 4 months old on the 6th. Amazing! I can't believe how time is flying. I try to cherish each and every day I have with him. He's eating cereal out of a spoon! We will start veggies next week. Unless we hear different from the doctor on Tuesday, we plan to start with veggies because it's said that it encourages better habits later in life. That way they don't start off with the sweetness of fruits.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWgihdFcFh-GHlHyoceWoTH6DMja-i66hrvfztzs7QCDf0KtgK9UkYsjsA_gi-7EgTXoU6u4TiEcSLV_qmd26xUMoBRp-UeE_yeekhvKz1mDFbinYYyMlh7xuZdaTknSXuUqozfSkMkA/s1600/DSCN0472.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWgihdFcFh-GHlHyoceWoTH6DMja-i66hrvfztzs7QCDf0KtgK9UkYsjsA_gi-7EgTXoU6u4TiEcSLV_qmd26xUMoBRp-UeE_yeekhvKz1mDFbinYYyMlh7xuZdaTknSXuUqozfSkMkA/s320/DSCN0472.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596541226163109602" /></a><br /><br /><br />He didn't like it at first but eventually warmed up to it.<br /><br /><br />He's eating 8oz of formula every 3-4 hours. Sometimes he goes longer because he's sleeping. He is sleeping thru the night more often. We have found that if he stays up past 9 he will sleep til about 6 in the morning. Although last night he slept in the bed with me. I'm guessing the weather yesterday probably effected him more than we realized at the time.<br /><br />Yesterday morning I had to change his PJ's. I happen to find one that was clean and just threw it on him. Not realizing until later it was 9 months! OMGosh! It was a little big but fit length wise. I can't believe how fast he is growing. Time definitely flies when you're having fun.<br /><br />Life is great! I joined the gym last week and hope to lose the rest of this baby fat soon! (And all the fat I had before Palmer!) I now have a wonderful reason to get and stay healthy versus an excuse to stay fat. Thinking ahead ... I want to be around for a long time to be with my family!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-88059897032033895652011-03-13T18:52:00.001-07:002011-03-13T19:16:47.816-07:003 months and 1 weekDearest Palmer,<br /><br />What a big boy you are already! You are truely a gift from God and you amaze me everyday.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV2KKPzTwEBgaVblxWAveJM58_H4Akf3UktpNBNftsDFYPaPBeyN4BjVJeqam8Jvvw8O20kVjd2CJ5hxkEJlwn7q72r9twk4CycOKCp0efw338cZZxyJyg06OhJjOwi-TZ9URJRtxy_w/s1600/DSCN0300.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV2KKPzTwEBgaVblxWAveJM58_H4Akf3UktpNBNftsDFYPaPBeyN4BjVJeqam8Jvvw8O20kVjd2CJ5hxkEJlwn7q72r9twk4CycOKCp0efw338cZZxyJyg06OhJjOwi-TZ9URJRtxy_w/s320/DSCN0300.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5583753411386192034" /></a><br /><br /><br />You are now eating 8oz about every 3.5 hours. Yesterday, all we had was regular soy formula and it hurt you so bad. I felt horrible being that your Daddy was home alone with you while I was photographing a birthday party. Needless to say, you will not have any more formula that isn't made for sensitive tummies. I'm so sorry son!<br /><br />Starting about 2 weeks ago, you started sleeping from about 8:30pm to 4:30am. Mommy greatly appreciates your change in schedule. But with daylight savings time being last night, we'll see how this week goes. You don't like being off your schedule the slightest bit.<br /><br />You are laughing now! It is the sweetest thing in the world. Last week, on your 3 monthday, I got a 2 minute video of you and your Daddy laughing. You wake up smiling! You constantly talk and interact with who ever is around. You are reaching and playing with the toy hanging in your rocking chair. Your favorite is the yellow Elephant with the rattle in the middle. Probably because it's the one to the right and we are pretty sure you're going to be right handed now. Even though about a month who you did everything with your left hand.<br /><br /><br /><br />You're wearing size 2 diapers and 3-6 month clothes. You have some 3 month clothes that still fit but the shirts seem to be a little short for you and your belly. You have some of the cutest little outfits. Even though it's incredibly hard to find cute clothes for you without spending the house payment. ;) <br /><br />Your Daddy and I are so in love with you and what you have become already. 3 months and 1 week ago I experienced the most awesomest thing in the world! I absolutely can NOT believe that my precious boy is 3 months old. Time is aboslutely flying by. You change a little bit every day. We took you shopping today and you slept the entire time. But when you woke up we sat in the parking lot and fed you your bottle. While we were sitting there, I could help but look at you and it took all I had to hold back the tears. You are truely the greatest gift I've ever been given and I thank God for picking me to be your mommy.<br /><br />I love you my Boy!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBzF45ZmgnjIWpljvYQt_EfLhVhpvLZLT4FI675DtjO1pvtipaR1MdIV7yVGQaurJl9OIblIC5_NRnugBh1W3J8jzdDWqYmicMiw58OFgbr8P3fOwlq8nJEIumjwaguACtLujqDiP1zA/s1600/DSCN0297.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBzF45ZmgnjIWpljvYQt_EfLhVhpvLZLT4FI675DtjO1pvtipaR1MdIV7yVGQaurJl9OIblIC5_NRnugBh1W3J8jzdDWqYmicMiw58OFgbr8P3fOwlq8nJEIumjwaguACtLujqDiP1zA/s320/DSCN0297.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5583752657411889522" /></a>Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-41082857548178547602011-03-05T19:59:00.000-08:002011-03-05T20:01:43.366-08:00Finally Designed our Birth AnnouncementI had designed one but wasn't please with the printing of it. 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I'm sitting here in tears and trying to get all this out while Palmer is crying in his crib. Only because after 2 hours of straight crying my nerves can't take it anymore. I totally just flipped on the dog because I can't take it anymore. And not to mention the dog has been horrible the last couple weeks.<br /><br />Palmer was 6 weeks old yesterday! I can't believe it. Last Thursday night we were having tummy time when he rolled over. There's only been one day since that he wouldn't do it again. It's totally amazing to watch how he progresses from day to day. To think a year ago he wasn't even in the making yet and here I am with my miracle in my arms.<br /><br />We went for his 1 month checkup almost 2 weeks ago now. He was up to 10 pounds 9 ounces and 21.5" long. He's growing so fast. Next month we get shots. Not my favorite part but I have to get used to it since I'll be the one taking him to most of his appointments. And we're changing doctors and the next appointment as well. At his last appointment the FNP we saw (who we have seen every single time since birth and was great until now) rushed in and out so quickly that I was in the middle of asking a question and didn't even ask the full question when she turned to me and said it's normal and walked out the door. I was NOT happy. Luckily next appointment is with the doctor who owns the pratice and who was my pediatrician when I was a teen. We saw him one day in the hospital. He took his time and explained EVERYthing! <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNqOJRyFSc8EFUvvKDwZHNfk1cnuaVUQ9jZSIatnRfwyzZvcTwXddcN6xN4xUNfJ-HtU5vvNoygZuMp9QXG67fmogKc1KKMdZEc4gSnNpogx2AizHScHBiINO1kZRwm6cCQuyXg4M6uQ/s1600/DSCN0197.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNqOJRyFSc8EFUvvKDwZHNfk1cnuaVUQ9jZSIatnRfwyzZvcTwXddcN6xN4xUNfJ-HtU5vvNoygZuMp9QXG67fmogKc1KKMdZEc4gSnNpogx2AizHScHBiINO1kZRwm6cCQuyXg4M6uQ/s320/DSCN0197.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5563615294200796690" /></a> He looks more and more growny everyday. He's definitely not the baby we brought home a little over a month ago. After bath time the other day his hair was sticking up in the middle, so we just went with it. This was the day we went to see my family while Grandma was in the hospital. Palmer and I didn't go to the hospital; Want to keep us germ free for as long as possible. But we did talk to her on the phone and sent pictures to her. Thank goodness for MMS!<br /><br /><br />So much happens from day to day, I need to be better about writing it all down. I don't want his first year to slip away like my entire pregnancy did.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-57820639189246658162010-12-30T11:09:00.000-08:002010-12-30T14:14:35.584-08:00Back to Birth (weight that is)Palmer had his upteenth doctor's visit yesterday. After the first few the FNP was worried about him not gaining enough weight. Usually newborns will return to their birthweight at about 2 weeks old.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-72324630273675704092010-12-13T08:52:00.000-08:002010-12-27T15:29:00.594-08:00It's a ...BOY! Jollybean is no longer nameless. Palmer Austin Jolly arrived on December 6, 2010 at 9:09 pm! He weighed 8lbs 9.6oz and was 20" long.<br /><br />Birthstory and updates to follow soon! For now ... a couple of pictures!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhozmWHQSyFtAqlnLCdw78_eaMcmQpt2KvZhZ8xzzoDTdRNj455MLpJThv3nDmdP_WAFmiq6-Dyd54vauJBzAHPg7JeTE9Py2pX8GjXGLzWLtTrAYZtaoU8vp-lDwnZYUJ2-BjRvJ1N1g/s1600/PICT0275.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhozmWHQSyFtAqlnLCdw78_eaMcmQpt2KvZhZ8xzzoDTdRNj455MLpJThv3nDmdP_WAFmiq6-Dyd54vauJBzAHPg7JeTE9Py2pX8GjXGLzWLtTrAYZtaoU8vp-lDwnZYUJ2-BjRvJ1N1g/s320/PICT0275.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5555506484925997762" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiAhWaM_PrhyTSAWksfmjjoo5mq0p-ssN-b4jnvYP-UMoX6iSK1pd6Z3pq0TALIV7Klm8VZIPoGfZD1J550NAANrzh8unWH36F-qap0F5FTbcJw5IqykilT5xDkdmUfUQvZxGecPxDww/s1600/PICT0246.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiAhWaM_PrhyTSAWksfmjjoo5mq0p-ssN-b4jnvYP-UMoX6iSK1pd6Z3pq0TALIV7Klm8VZIPoGfZD1J550NAANrzh8unWH36F-qap0F5FTbcJw5IqykilT5xDkdmUfUQvZxGecPxDww/s320/PICT0246.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5555506469109417202" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqBbHsH9824wOH-HxzSsRdjKVS-2n5OqkZqR81sk4_ojhOUnKYttKZF0hrfDVhBIF-oJ6CiP6khMQfjDgZk-KU7Qi-cqytwyqrIj71ZkGYYV-J84QPA9i_up7kDqEUxS-styYqsm1d-A/s1600/PICT0306.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqBbHsH9824wOH-HxzSsRdjKVS-2n5OqkZqR81sk4_ojhOUnKYttKZF0hrfDVhBIF-oJ6CiP6khMQfjDgZk-KU7Qi-cqytwyqrIj71ZkGYYV-J84QPA9i_up7kDqEUxS-styYqsm1d-A/s320/PICT0306.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5555506489576694658" /></a>Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-37373594130555475912010-12-01T16:02:00.000-08:002010-12-01T18:08:02.526-08:00Are we there yet?Today is December 1st and I can not believe JB is not here. Dr D said he thought the baby would be here by Thanksgiving. Then a friend told me that as soon as the doctor says you'll go early, the baby is gonna wait.<br /><br />I feel great! This past Sunday we had maternity portraits done and I'm so glad that JB held off long enough to do them. It was important to me to get them done. This may or may not be our last but I haven't been great about taking belly shots or other pictures so I really wanted them done. Kris isn't big on pictures but all the pictures we have are from our wedding! (4 year ago!!!)<br /><br />I've had some stress from work the last few days and today I think it got the best of me. But I'm trusting God will provide like He always has! We have never gone without and I know that we're going to be taken care of. Today however, was extremely stressful and I think it's taking a toll on me. But I have a wonderful husband who brought me the only I wanted and has agreed to a backrub later. I'm so blessed!<br /><br />Just hoping delivery isn't too far away and everything goes ok. Check out a couple of my maternity pictures below! I heart them!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJcgbU4tFOLe5e_T8qcbgoy0N9FXGb_2G9sH8wGImqahswvy2CeHaGW4t7KtdS8kdUmZhPFBMF4Yj5uZ3GP9_uwWY4usMa62pWHj4Ofynkr8c4LO0FIZojMV6YoerSm4YU40NbZEUFAg/s1600/201033249760046377-2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJcgbU4tFOLe5e_T8qcbgoy0N9FXGb_2G9sH8wGImqahswvy2CeHaGW4t7KtdS8kdUmZhPFBMF4Yj5uZ3GP9_uwWY4usMa62pWHj4Ofynkr8c4LO0FIZojMV6YoerSm4YU40NbZEUFAg/s320/201033249760046377-2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545900572808339986" /></a><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvZNLp8R0Sr2m_MAkz62lCl2CPZGGtOh_HdZo6GsMBw7Q1MzZgFmSbNRU5IDVJ_2xNpzv4CrniyT7LthU-rnvGSqMjol8Dqef6XdBIAp5dhajL8ZBtveiITtfpVenKdtYMo8FlJ9j9DA/s1600/201033245990034607.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvZNLp8R0Sr2m_MAkz62lCl2CPZGGtOh_HdZo6GsMBw7Q1MzZgFmSbNRU5IDVJ_2xNpzv4CrniyT7LthU-rnvGSqMjol8Dqef6XdBIAp5dhajL8ZBtveiITtfpVenKdtYMo8FlJ9j9DA/s320/201033245990034607.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545900567482578642" /></a>Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-80478512735260670042010-11-22T06:55:00.001-08:002010-12-01T15:40:00.573-08:0037w 4d ... and a stomach bug to join usSaturday morning about 3:00 I woke up just not feeling right. Not knowing if this was early labor or what, I started texting my mom. Then I got sick. Close for 12 hours I was violetly ill. I couldn't keep anything down, not even Gatorade. I finally paged my doctor and he wanted Kris to get some freeze pops and call back in 2 hours. So that's exactly what we did. Only to find out after talking to him the second time, he wanted us to go to L&D. When I got there my blood pressure was up (slightly) but that wasn't the main concern. They had me on the monitor and JB's heartrate was in the 170's and had them concerned. My pulse was also high. In the meantime, 2 women came in and the doctor's had to tend to them. In the meantime, they did let me eat crushed ice for 2 hours. When a doctor made it back to me, my pulse was down just a little but the baby's was still slightly elevated. They decided to check me since I had been so violently sick and having irregular contractions. Although I didn't even feel all of them; some lasting 40-60 seconds. I was 1cm and 20%. Surprise! I wasn't expecting that at all. After 4 1/2 hours of monitoring, eating ice chips and 3 packs of crackers, they sent us home!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-50889370224605959242010-10-21T13:09:00.001-07:002010-10-21T14:19:31.395-07:0033 weeks ... Time is FLYING by!I absolutely can NOT believe the title of this post. 33 weeks! Where has this pregnancy gone?<br /><br />I celebrated my 28th birthday on October 6. The day before we had a doctor's appointment with an ultrasound! Best b-day present ever (except what Kris got me)! Every time I get to see our baby, I get the most amazing feeling in the world. <br /><br />Then this past Saturday, my mom treated us to a 3D ultrasound. I'm so glad she was able to go with us. It really was an amazing time! Our little JB didn't want to cooperate for the first little while. He/She decided to keep at least one hand in front of their face. Since we drove almost 2 hours to get there, the tech decided to keep going and give us some extra time so we wouldn't have to drive back for a rescan on another day. Good thing, cause I think we almost missed the window for a good scan anyways, and that's without waiting another week.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLSLzv3tbSQnZtdGm7QladTQSQywkw01Cp-4lGepGoQV7sb_kXxDnM5bsz9wT6bXFCrl9KP1AMOsgyCk_TbvlyED06uYbHM27-3NTPmkdV4nU0_Ss48cqLMN-hAe76wRGRy8VIaHryww/s1600/BABY_19.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLSLzv3tbSQnZtdGm7QladTQSQywkw01Cp-4lGepGoQV7sb_kXxDnM5bsz9wT6bXFCrl9KP1AMOsgyCk_TbvlyED06uYbHM27-3NTPmkdV4nU0_Ss48cqLMN-hAe76wRGRy8VIaHryww/s320/BABY_19.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530606668377313378" /></a><br /><br /><br />JB's (Jollybean's) room is pretty much done. The floors have been done for a couple months. My dad and a friend of our's finished the baseboards and shoemolding. Then a couple weeks ago, I decided on a day off that I wanted to go ahead and caulk the baseboards. We finally got the crib replacements pieces in and all put together. Furniture is in place so all we have to do is find bedding we like. And that will probably be after JB arrives, since we can't find anything neutral.<br /><br />I have spent the last few weeks washing clothes, towels and washcloths for the baby. We have 3 drawers ready to go for when JB makes his/her arrival. At the appointment on the 5th, the ultrasound and exam all looked good. However, on the 14th I ended up going to L&D after talking to a nurse and my doctor. I was fine when I woke up and got ready for work but on the hour drive I starting having a few contractions and sharp pain. I called Kris and he left the dealership and was there before me. They put me on the monitor as soon as we got checked in. The baby was doing great and I only had a one measurable contraction. So after a couple hours, the dr checked me out and let me go home. So from the 5th to the 14th I went from normal to between a fingertip and 1cm dilated. And it was then that Dr. D said we will probably have a Thanksgiving baby. And while I know the important thing is for JB to be healthy, I'd love him/her to come the week before or the week after Thanksgiving.<br /><br />I forgot to mention what Kris gave me for my birthday. It's actually my birthday and anniversary gift combined. The week before my birthday, Kris took my mom out to every furniture store in my hometown to go shopping. My mom said Kris sat in probably 100+ chairs. So he ended up ordering a custom upholstered rocking arm chair for me. It's totally fluffy, soft and cozy! I can't wait to rock our baby in it!<br /><br />Things are finally coming together! I've spent today cooking some of our favorite meals to freeze. So our house smells totally yummy and I've enjoyed my day off. I not only deserved a good day but I have really enjoyed it. So back to work tomorrow and then I'm photographing a wedding saturday. I've got to be crazy! Lead shooting a wedding at 33 weeks pregnant... Yep, I've lost it. But after that, it's only small projects I'm sure I can handle until I go into labor.<br /><br />I do believe that labor and JB's arrival are within weeks! I'm totally excited!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-23176579325405117612010-08-11T19:03:00.000-07:002010-08-13T07:35:19.031-07:00Almost 23 weeks ...and trying to figure things out?Tomorrow I will be 23 weeks! Where has this pregnancy gone? I seriously cannot begin to figure this out. It's like a mystery that no matter how hard I try to enjoy every day, it keeps slipping away.<br /><br />Tonight I enjoyed at least an hour "chat" with a friend of mine. She's about 5 weeks behind me and we both know how scary this is. Just talking to someone who understands how I feel. I feel pregnant but I'm so scared that it's going to be taken away from me any second. 24 weeks is a milestone of viability. It's around the corner but what if something happens between now and then.<br /><br />I'm excited that I have a dr's appt next week. I wish I could have another ultrasound though. It's tough not seeing your little one often enough. It's been 5 weeks since our last one. If my doctor doesn't order one at my appointment we will likely go for a 3d ultrasound in the next month or so. It's killing me.<br /><br />Also, Kris and I decided that we wouldn't find out the gender. Mostly because he didn't want to know. But now, I'm thinking that I want to know. Shopping has been fun but somewhat challenging. It's definitely harder to find neutral outfits than one for specific genders. We'll probably wait to buy the bedding until Jollybean arrives. It's going to be interesting trying to do some buying, especially if I find out the gender and can't tell Kris. Hmmmm... what ever do I do?Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-44458818828164447202010-07-23T19:36:00.000-07:002010-08-10T11:45:35.529-07:00Half Way There!Could I be any more amazed! We are 20 weeks through this pregnancy. Things are going great.<br /><br />Not a long post, but just had to announce that we are officially, HALF WAY THERE!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-52366090008414171792010-07-14T11:04:00.000-07:002010-07-23T19:34:00.345-07:00Almost 19 weeks and Everything's GREAT!Yesterday was an exciting day for me and Kris! We had our "BIG" ultrasound. That's as big as it gets without finding out the gender. Our baby is healthy! From head to toe! Besides measuring 6 days ahead, everything was so normal my Dr. D said it was a boring appointment.<br /><br />Me, Boring? yeah right. I quickly reminded him of the last 2 years and everything it took for us to get to that point. After a few minutes, Dr. D was whistling the tune, "If I only had a brain." That's not exactly what you want to hear your doctor singing while he's in the room. We all just laughed.<br /><br />Afterwards, Kris played golf with my dad. I think it did them both some good to get away from "the women." My mom and I went to Olive Garden and enjoyed the salad then did a little shopping. I still think we're having a boy. Watch my intuition be wrong. (What else is new?) But I picked up some cute stuff. If we do end up with a boy, he's going to be the best dressed! Argile sweater vests, plaid pants, collared shirts. Oh yeah... that's where it's at! And if I'm wrong, our little girl will be the prettiest princess, EVER!<br /><br /><em></em>Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-37437908261881195382010-07-09T16:39:00.000-07:002010-07-09T16:41:42.837-07:00Another Great GiveawayA friend of mine is doing another great giveaway. It ends tonight but I plan on buying some of these awesome Bumbas!<br /><br />It's a great way to stop diaper rash before it starts, eliminate the use of powder and keep your little one healthy and happy! You should check them out, and her blog!<br /><br />http://www.bummas.com/<br /><br />&<br /><br />http://www.mommywantsfreebies.com/Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-48935343163907215312010-07-07T08:29:00.001-07:002010-07-07T08:40:18.145-07:00Almost 18 weeks down, 22 to goTomorrow I will be 18 weeks along in my pregnancy! WOW! Time has really flown by. In the beginning I tried so hard to protect my heart and Kris's that we didn't really take time to enjoy those first few months. But now, it seems as though time is flying by and our baby will be here before you know it.<br /><br />Yesterday, I received a doppler fetal listener in the mail. (Thanks to one of my dear friends! TY!) I sat on the couch for almost 30 minutes and just listened to our miracles hearbeat. It's really the most amazing sound! Then when Kris got home, I couldn't wait for him to listen as well. He missed the doctor's appointment last week when my dad and I were able to hear it. And then, amazingly enough, I felt the doppler move. Kris was able to feel our baby move last night for the first time ever! Oh I wish you could've seen his face!<br /><br />We have our "BIG" ultrasound next week, but we will not be finding out the gender. So for now, and until December, our little is known as "Jollybean." We are looking forward to seeing our baby again and finding out just how big he/she really is. Last time, around 13 weeks, our baby was almost a full week ahead of schedule.<br /><br />But as for me, I'm behind schedule. The nursery isn't even cleaned out, we haven't picked out furniture or anything. We waited so long to make sure that everything was going to be ok that time kinda slipped away from us. I have been buying clothes when I find them on sale or clearance, buying some diapers online and I even think we have names picked out.<br /><br />This past week, my dad and I made the trip to LA (that's Lower Alabama) to see Granny. I finally told her our news. I was beyond thrilled that I was able to tell her in person. It meant so much to me. And of course, I went shopping for some new Bama gear since they did win the National Championship back in January. But little did I expect to find a Houndstooth onesie! I almost died right there in Hibbet Sports. It wasn't on clearance, much less on sale: But none the less, it found it's way right into my bag.<br /><br />I realize that I haven't been blogging much. But I will be better from here on out. I haven't recorded many of the little milestones along the way, but you can bet on it that I won't miss another one!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-7606615380528218112010-05-24T11:34:00.000-07:002010-05-24T11:38:53.472-07:00IVF Cancelled ... Baby Due In DecemberJust wanted to do a quick post to share our amazing news. While taking a month off to get ready for IVF and everything that goes with it, we ended up with a positive pregnancy test and 2 great looking ultrasounds!<br /><br />What a blessing! So I guess I'll be changing the name of my blog to reflect this soon!<br /><br />Also, a friend of mine has a great blog! Check out Mommy Wants Freebies! I've gotten a few of my freebies already. Can't wait for the rest to get here. Right now there's a Paci-Plushie giveaway. They are super cute! Here's the link http://mommywantsfreebies.blogspot.com/2010/05/loading.html<br /><br />Hope to share the next 7 months or so with yall about our journey we never thought would happen. Baby's Due Date - December 10, 2010Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-63507018091932913942010-03-13T08:23:00.000-08:002010-03-15T10:55:29.152-07:00Another Week Past<div>We're another week into the year and I don't feel any closer to attaining our dream.</div><br /><br />I'm working long crazy hours and so is Kris. So "us" time doesn't exist like it once did. It's kinda depressing actually.<br /><br />However, I did end up talking to my doctor a few weeks ago. He called in a prescription for Clomid again this month and insisted I make it in this time for my lab appointment. Last month I didn't make it in because work wouldn't let me off. But this time I'm going to make it in to get my Progesterone draw on time. It's a must this month. If I don't go in, he won't know if I'm ovulating on my own. So we'll see. I'm hoping I ovulate. Who would've thought that after years of preventing and such that now just ovulating is a huge step to get pregnant!<br /><br />I'm feeling pretty good about this cycle. I don't know why but I have a feeling that ovulation is right around the corner. Just that part will be a huge step at this point.<br /><br />Kris's car will be paid off next week and we'll be able to start saving even more for IVF. I still have hope for a miracle though! God has always been faithful. Either he will send us a miracle baby or send us the means for IVF. It's just being patient that I'm not good at.<br /><br />Also, I have given up soda. I've lost about 9 pounds in the last 3 weeks from that alone. I'm drinking about 2 liters of water a day as well. Trying to cut back on the fast food and junk. Maybe we can add some exercise in the mix when my work schedule evens out (if ever.) So keep us in your prayers. I'm also praying for God to open the door to a new job for me. These 60+ hour weeks are just killing me. But for now, I guess that's it. I'll post again next week when I have my lab report back.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-55675807992828457852010-03-03T08:02:00.000-08:002010-03-03T08:22:02.900-08:00IF and too much to doI'm gonna try to be better about posting. It just always seems that I try not to think about things so much.<br /><br />But in the midst of this storm, there's a lighthouse on the shore. We're approaching 16 months of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">TTC</span>. I mentioned all the hoops we're having to go through to get to destination baby. Some of those hoops will be in the past in about a month. Our tax return was better than we expected and we'll hopefully be able to proceed with <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">IVF</span> in October. We could possibly do it before then, but I'm hoping for October! It's a wonderful month; my birthday, our anniversary and just a great month all around.<br /><br />I have set some goals and intend to complete them all before <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">IVF</span>. The major one is weight loss and to improve our lifestyle. We need to be healthier, but especially me since I'll be the one carrying our little miracle (or two!) Decrease our clutter is another huge thing. How do 2 people <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">accumulate</span> so much stuff. Really, just stuff. We're donating most of it to local charities and safe houses for women.<br /><br />Kris is doing so well at his new job. Well, not so new anymore. It's great to see him succeed! Not just because he's my husband, but because he was <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">suppressed</span> for so long in the golf business. When he does a good job, he hears it. That goes a long way. He's happier and we can spend Sundays together. It makes a huge difference in our relationship as well. We're both happier.<br /><br />All is well on our journey for now!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-82757989899430344312009-12-27T18:04:00.000-08:002009-12-27T18:14:55.611-08:0014 months and countingSo it's been 14 months since we started trying to start our family. There's been so much going on with work and other stuff we haven't talked too much about it lately. But I think about it everyday. Like what will we really have to do to have our baby. We know one sure fire way, but it's a matter of paying off all debt before we go the IVF route. It's tough to know there's an option but you have to jump through 100 hoops to get there.<br /><br />Infertility sucks! I never would have thought that at 27 there would be no other way to have a baby except through IVF. I know that I can get pregnant but staying pregnant is an issue. It's an issue that I have to overcome everyday just to get out of bed. Why's it so hard? Why me? These are questions I think about everyday. The anniversary of my wreck it coming this week and I just think about all the blessings I do have. But why this? I can't help but be bitter every time I see a pregnant lady or a new born. What have I done to deserve this?<br /><br />It was almost a year ago that I found out I was pregnant. Almost a year ago that my second pregnancy would be coming to an end and a birth approaching. But no, all that's been taken away from me and Kris. I hurt for Kris. I know he wants a baby too but I can't give him the family he so desires. He deserves to be a father. He deserves to share his love with someone else.<br /><br />So on this cold winter's night, Kris is sleeping and sick ... I sit alone. Thinking. Wishing. Praying.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-26049745446105670992009-10-22T16:58:00.000-07:002009-10-22T17:16:20.051-07:00I hate mixed emotions ... even more, I hate Rude peoplSo today Kris and I went to Virginia Beach to visit the New Hope Center for Reproductive medicine. Kinda nervous but someone gave us a great word about them.<br /><br />We got there and filled out the rest of the paperwork that they don't send in the mail. We didn't wait very long and then we met with Kelly. Not sure of her title but she took some general information and such. Then we met with Dr. Robin. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">OMG</span> I love her. She's great. She took time to listen to both of us. Not that Kris had a lot to say but none the less. She expressed that I've been through so much to be only 27. (She said I was young! YES! Someone to say I'm young since my birthday.) We had a great appointment with her. Very informative, inspirational and optimistic. So we finally got to my "big" question, "can we cycle in December?" She said absolutely. Just needed to get a few more tests out of the way but she didn't see why not. Oh, and what I knew was coming ... I need to lose 17 lbs by December 1. No problem!<br /><br />Went <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">through</span> a ton of testing. A millions tubes of blood drawn for me and Kris, EKG, Ultrasound ... everything. All was good. Until ... <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">da</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">da</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">da</span> The financial consult. I had cleared all this with insurance about 4 weeks ago. I was very sure of my benefits and therefore felt we could go forward with <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">IVF</span>. Wrong. The not so nice lady (that's nice for the rude bitch) said that part of a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">procedure</span> wasn't covered. We're talking a 8k test here. That's a chunk of change. I tried to tell her that I talked to people and before I could finish my sentence she cut me off. Then she wouldn't listen to what I had to say and pretty much said sorry, I talked to your insurance this morning and I know for sure.<br /><br />So I left in tears. What started as such a good day and appointment ended in stress, tears and heartbreak. I'm trying to talk to my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">insurance</span> and spent probably an hour on the phone with them today. And this awesome lady with the insurance called me @ 7:30 pm. We're gonna have to try and appeal this but who knows if that will even work. If I had known this in the beginning I wouldn't have had all the tests done today.<br /><br />I know God had a plan for us. I know it's something Great! But for now, I feel like a failure. I can't have a baby. Kris can. And it's just breaking my heart to want something so badly and I can't do anything about it. So now it's time to put this in God's hands. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">Sooo</span> hard to do and trust completely. But I have to. We'll just pray and wait for the insurance company to get back to me.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-41800470872853566442009-09-09T15:31:00.000-07:002009-09-09T16:21:53.921-07:00Genetic Counseling ... now what?If you know us at all, you know that Kris and I have had a rough year. But today was a day of hope and possibly a brighter future.<br /><br />Today we met with a genetics counselor at Brody School of Medicine to talk about the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Karyotype</span> results and what that means for us. There's definitely lots to think about. And we're also waiting to hear from a geneticist in NY to make a decision about anything.<br /><br />The meeting wasn't incredibly long, only about an hour, but lots of information was given and even more to come. We found out that it is possible for us to have a healthy baby. What exactly it will take is complicated. Leave it to me to make it that way. Basically, we can keep trying until we find that special healthy one to stick or we can proceed with <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">IVF</span> but with genetic testing. We're going to wait until we hear from NY to make any decisions.<br /><br />After 2 miscarriages in 6 months, it's hard to even think about risking another one. But then again <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">IVF</span> is expensive even with insurance. It's a tough call. But I paged my regular <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">gyn</span>/ob and he said that he'll support us either way and do whatever he can along the way. My family is very supportive.<br /><br />So we have some decisions to make. It won't be easy, but we'll make it!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-2474286981043430672009-08-31T18:02:00.000-07:002009-08-31T18:51:15.574-07:00Looking UpSince my last post, I've talked with the doctor's office and the insurance company. <br /><br />We have an appointment on 09/09/09 @ 09:00 with a genetics counselor in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Greenville</span>. Today I spoke with my regular doctor and he's already being proactive to make sure everything goes smoothly from here on out. He wants to coordinate things with the other doctors to make sure nothing is overlooked from any standpoint. I was really touched that he called me today. I'm not on schedule or anything for him so it was out of his own concern that he called.<br /><br />I'm excited and nervous but ready to find out what we have to do next. Thankfully, I'll be off work next week to get things done around the house and to make sure I'm on time for both appointments. I have a follow up lab on the 10<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span>.<br /><br />Please keep us in your prayers and we'll do the same!Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14285693962343332.post-2722145967522262532009-08-23T13:51:00.000-07:002009-08-23T14:06:04.401-07:00Easy Like Sunday MorningOk ... So I've done a lot of thinking and even more crying since the phone call Friday afternoon. Hence the reason I decided to start this blog. Kris and I are about to start a long journey and I want to share it with our family and friends.<br /><br />We've told most everyone, but I've been thru 2 miscarriages since January. With the last one the doctor suggested we have some genetic testing done. They said there was only a 3-4% chance of something being wrong but wanted to make sure. So we had to wait weeks for the test and then 3 more for the results. That brings us to the phone call I received Friday afternoon. I was just pulling in the driveway when my phone rang. I knew it was the dr's office but I wasn't prepared for what happened next. Dr. Livingston (the geneticist) was on the phone and asked if I had a few minutes. He then told me that I have a chromosomal translocation. That everything worked fine for me because all of my DNA information was there, but it was switched around in a few places. He then proceeded to tell me that Kris and I need to meet with a Genetics Counselor to discuss options for ever having a baby. Right then, my world as I knew it fell apart.<br /><br />My dreams have been ripped apart. Our dream of having a baby sooner, rather than later, is shattered. Basically we'll have to undergo IVF with Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis. So when we can save about 20k we can start trying to have a baby.<br /><br />I am going to revamp my budget and try to see when I can start saving even more. Which I had somewhat done because of Kris's new job, but it's time to pull out all the stops. I'm cancelling our vacation to Jamaica in January and cutting out all the extras. I have a call in to our insurance company but I have a feeling that nothing will be covered.<br /><br />So, this weekend was supposed to be a good one. Kris sold 5 cars last week and did really well. But instead, I've been down and crying at the drop of a hat. So I guess that's it for today, but I'll keep posting as we continue our journey which will hopefully end with a baby one day.Kris and Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16847910410585493466noreply@blogger.com1